This simple quote allegedly attributed to have come from Mahatma Gandhi sums up the INFJs problem so succinctly. Some INFJs experience this on daily basis.

Depends on your outlook. It's actually easier being an INFJ

Because INFs are so rare and unique making up for only 1–2% of people in the world

INFJs use their eyes, ears and mouth extremely selectively. They will usually only speak, or only hear or only observe at one time. And while they are only hearing, only speaking or only observing, they connect their heart, mind, brain and soul on full load.
And that's why having them listen to you, or talk to you or look...

INFs Utopia can be the toughest thing in the world. Alternatively it can also be the very simplest. The reason?

INFJ's obsessive love of nature, animals, solitude, inner as well as outer peace and uninterrupted communication with their inner self drives their choice of place where they desire to live.

INFJs are driven by their sense of individuality, authenticity, depth, truth, and honesty which makes it hard for them to be liked by most people who are by and large, let's admit, superficial, self-interest-serving, and lacking depth.

'You are so quiet!' remarks everyone.

INFJs often prefer to be misunderstood rather than pretending to be someone they are not due to their deep commitment to authenticity and personal values. There are several reasons for this:

INFJs are extremely rare. They constitute only about 1-2 % of the total world's population. This is how to spot them:

When I'm guarded, people think I'm a snob.

I always felt like I'm not from this generation. I just live in it. Because the way my mindset differs from the majority, you'd think I come from a different dimension. That's why I keep things to myself, because a lot of people won't understand me.

People need to understand that once you go through your worst time alone, you really don't care who stays in your life anymore.

Beware of what you say to them. They may listen to what you say, but they prioritise what you don't say, because it makes them more aware of your emotional condition and motives than your words will ever allow.

Not everyone gets the same version of me. One person might tell you I'm an amazingly beautiful soul. Another may say I'm a cold-hearted asshole. Believe them both. I act accordingly.

INFJs get largely triggered by loud noise, rushing, crowded places, being gaslighted, small talk overload, someone insulting their Intelligence, someone doubting their integrity, phones ringing, or socialising.

If an INFJ goes silent, it either means they're lost in thought, crying inside, tired of explaining themselves, or about to blow up. May the odds be ever in your favour.

I'm attracted to intelligence. Don't get me wrong; a perfectly crafted body will get my attention, but I'll get bored with it. I always do. I need you to outsmart me. Make me feel like I could learn from you. Grow with you. Do that and you can have me forever.

They wonder why people are idiots.

INFJ smile is no light hearted ordinary stuff. It hides scary volumes and depths. A good thing, no one peeps...!

Oh, this quote is so so true!